Have you ever wondered why good guys finish last? I recently read that it's because they are so agreeable, too polite, and a bit of a pushover. However, the real reason may be because they are overly caring. It's true that all women require tender love and care, but like anything else it needs to delivered in portions. Why? Because too much candy will rot the teeth, and hugging a puppy too tight will crush its ribs. Contrary to popular belief, good men don't finish last because they are weak or soft. They finish last because their love is extremely raw and unfiltered, and like with anything else, too much of it at once is detrimental.My advice for the good guys is to pace yourself in love by giving a woman time to miss you, allow her to value a compliment before giving her another, be chivalrous while allowing her to be independent, and most of all, allow her to know that she is not the only prize to be won, that you are as well. Do this and I promise that you'll not only be keeping up in the race of love, but you just might cross the finish line first.
Men just remember that finishing first is not the goal, finding a real connection is. In fact what I love most about the saying "good guys finish last" is that it portrays the strength and endurance a good man has in love. Good girls on the other hand sometimes don't ever cross the finish line at all. Not too often you'll catch them dropping the baton and becoming a cheer leader for the other team. Maybe that's the correlation between the two sayings. If good women go bad can a good man really finish first??? What an interesting concept. I want women to realize today that a good guy isn't a bad thing, nor is heartbreak reason for you to give up on your true identity. The goodness of who you are is what all men value in women, the jerks included. Think about it. The bad boy likes that his girl is devoted, takes care of his needs and wants, seeks to please him even when she's hurt, feeling neglected, and more. A good woman stays by a bad boy's side even with cause not to. And what does he call her? He calls her a ride or die chick. The word chick is short for chickling or a baby chicken who is reliant. A chick has no choice but to ride because if it does not it will die. Good women you're more than that! Wake up and recognize that hurt is temporary, and love is eternal. Grab you baton, dust yourself off, and get back in the race, because at the end of the day what is a good man without a good a good woman?! Until next time. One love, one heart. -B.B.
Men just remember that finishing first is not the goal, finding a real connection is. In fact what I love most about the saying "good guys finish last" is that it portrays the strength and endurance a good man has in love. Good girls on the other hand sometimes don't ever cross the finish line at all. Not too often you'll catch them dropping the baton and becoming a cheer leader for the other team. Maybe that's the correlation between the two sayings. If good women go bad can a good man really finish first??? What an interesting concept. I want women to realize today that a good guy isn't a bad thing, nor is heartbreak reason for you to give up on your true identity. The goodness of who you are is what all men value in women, the jerks included. Think about it. The bad boy likes that his girl is devoted, takes care of his needs and wants, seeks to please him even when she's hurt, feeling neglected, and more. A good woman stays by a bad boy's side even with cause not to. And what does he call her? He calls her a ride or die chick. The word chick is short for chickling or a baby chicken who is reliant. A chick has no choice but to ride because if it does not it will die. Good women you're more than that! Wake up and recognize that hurt is temporary, and love is eternal. Grab you baton, dust yourself off, and get back in the race, because at the end of the day what is a good man without a good a good woman?! Until next time. One love, one heart. -B.B.
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