I heard a saying that compared people to a two sided coin. The saying explained that like a two sided coin people have sides, a good side, a bad side, a future, and a past. When we choose to love someone we have to accept both sides of who they are because accepting one side only, doesn't represent the full value of the individual. How can you have a 5 cent dime? How can you appreciate your significant other's strengths without knowing their weaknesses? How can you relate to who they are now without understanding their past struggles? How can you celebrate the success of their future without knowing the path traveled to get there and the obstacles overcame to succeed? How can you value a 5 cent dime? To love is a decision. It's a decision that takes us on a journey full of surprises. Preparing for the journey first starts with understanding the terrain you're traveling and valuing its features for what they're worth. Today I want readers to prepare for love's journey by first choosing to love someone completely instead of with a half hearted appreciation. Remember that people are not tools to use at your convenience to fix problems in your life, and their lives aren't toys to be played with and packed away when you're finished having a good time. Be respectful and value people for who they are instead of creating their value by giving them a worth. There's no such thing as a 5 cent dime. Until next time. -B.B.
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