All the Single Ladies, Your Last First Date

 At some point in your life a time will come when you will make a personal decision to begin looking for more, more than you've experienced before. As little girls women dream of their marriage, wearing the whit dress, and the ceremony with all the trimmings. However, what I've notices is that women lose sight of that dream somewhere between senior year in high school and their mid twenties. Then after it is all said and done, most hit a turning point finding themselves single and trying to put the pieces of the dream back together again. Today I want to tell the single lady it's time you have your last first date. True, finding someone seems harder said than done, but it begins with you. It begins with letting go of past hurts, mistakes, insecurities, stereotypes about the opposite sex, and anything else deterring you from your dream. A beautiful woman once explained to me that she learned what she wanted by discovering what she didn't want. Today reflect on your past so that you may discover a better future. Learn the things you don't want and need in your life so that when the time comes your next date can be your last first date! Until next time. One love, one heart. -B.B.