Men just remember that finishing first is not the goal, finding a real connection is. In fact what I love most about the saying "good guys finish last" is that it portrays the strength and endurance a good man has in love. Good girls on the other hand sometimes don't ever cross the finish line at all. Not too often you'll catch them dropping the baton and becoming a cheer leader for the other team. Maybe that's the correlation between the two sayings. If good women go bad can a good man really finish first??? What an interesting concept. I want women to realize today that a good guy isn't a bad thing, nor is heartbreak reason for you to give up on your true identity. The goodness of who you are is what all men value in women, the jerks included. Think about it. The bad boy likes that his girl is devoted, takes care of his needs and wants, seeks to please him even when she's hurt, feeling neglected, and more. A good woman stays by a bad boy's side even with cause not to. And what does he call her? He calls her a ride or die chick. The word chick is short for chickling or a baby chicken who is reliant. A chick has no choice but to ride because if it does not it will die. Good women you're more than that! Wake up and recognize that hurt is temporary, and love is eternal. Grab you baton, dust yourself off, and get back in the race, because at the end of the day what is a good man without a good a good woman?! Until next time. One love, one heart. -B.B.
The Love Chronicles by B.B.
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Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Nice Guys Finish Last, Good Girls Go Bad
Men just remember that finishing first is not the goal, finding a real connection is. In fact what I love most about the saying "good guys finish last" is that it portrays the strength and endurance a good man has in love. Good girls on the other hand sometimes don't ever cross the finish line at all. Not too often you'll catch them dropping the baton and becoming a cheer leader for the other team. Maybe that's the correlation between the two sayings. If good women go bad can a good man really finish first??? What an interesting concept. I want women to realize today that a good guy isn't a bad thing, nor is heartbreak reason for you to give up on your true identity. The goodness of who you are is what all men value in women, the jerks included. Think about it. The bad boy likes that his girl is devoted, takes care of his needs and wants, seeks to please him even when she's hurt, feeling neglected, and more. A good woman stays by a bad boy's side even with cause not to. And what does he call her? He calls her a ride or die chick. The word chick is short for chickling or a baby chicken who is reliant. A chick has no choice but to ride because if it does not it will die. Good women you're more than that! Wake up and recognize that hurt is temporary, and love is eternal. Grab you baton, dust yourself off, and get back in the race, because at the end of the day what is a good man without a good a good woman?! Until next time. One love, one heart. -B.B.
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Please Don't Judge Me & Let it be Beautiful: Chris Brown
Friday, September 7, 2012
Sharing Beyond Caring: Ex's, the Child, and the BS.
When two people have a child together and the relationship fails, is it still the father of the child's responsibility to provide a stable living environment for his ex b/c his kid lives with her? I feel these type of situations open the door for men to be exploited financially and emotionally. The man's responsibility should be a healthy contribution towards feeding, clothing, and sheltering his child. I feel that anything beyond that benefits the undeserving partner. Too many times have I've seen women use opportunities like such to feed their materialistic, and most of the time, self desires. Same thing goes for men on the opposite side of the table. It's a real thin line between caring enough to help support the contributing parent of your child and just straight being used. Be careful of who you sleep and share DNA with. Children aren't gambling chips to be used in the game of love. Plan for parenthood. Don't believe the hype of "I want to have your baby," or "Girl lets make a baby." Words don't equal the action of taking care of a living, breathing responsibility that has feelings, emotions, learns, and soaks in everything he/she sees and hears from the experience of a relationship gone sour. I guess when dealing with complicated circumstances we have to learn to honestly respect other parties involved without letting our personal feelings toward the other party, whether good or bad, influence the atmosphere we create for making decisions of provision. Remember that baggage definitely sways our thinking, and there's no hell like a woman scorned. Until next time. One love, one heart. -B.B.
Monday, September 3, 2012
Once Upon A Time
All the Single Ladies, Your Last First Date
There's No Such Thing As A 5 Cent Dime: The Decision to Love
I heard a saying that compared people to a two sided coin. The saying explained that like a two sided coin people have sides, a good side, a bad side, a future, and a past. When we choose to love someone we have to accept both sides of who they are because accepting one side only, doesn't represent the full value of the individual. How can you have a 5 cent dime? How can you appreciate your significant other's strengths without knowing their weaknesses? How can you relate to who they are now without understanding their past struggles? How can you celebrate the success of their future without knowing the path traveled to get there and the obstacles overcame to succeed? How can you value a 5 cent dime? To love is a decision. It's a decision that takes us on a journey full of surprises. Preparing for the journey first starts with understanding the terrain you're traveling and valuing its features for what they're worth. Today I want readers to prepare for love's journey by first choosing to love someone completely instead of with a half hearted appreciation. Remember that people are not tools to use at your convenience to fix problems in your life, and their lives aren't toys to be played with and packed away when you're finished having a good time. Be respectful and value people for who they are instead of creating their value by giving them a worth. There's no such thing as a 5 cent dime. Until next time. -B.B.